I am going over my trust issues and I can’t figure out what to do. Beans you gotta trust someone. You have to or you will never be in any contact with others as long as you live. I give people the benefit of the doubt but once they lie, nothing else they say matters to me. Once you violate the trust be it a friendship or relationship, you have nothing. In the words of Judge Judy, “Don’t pee on my leg and tell me it’s raining”. lol That is my mind state. Tell the truth or say nothing and keep it moving. I am able to discern when people lie to me, I just don’t even say anything, I just put them on that list of people not to trust. The sad part is that it gets longer everyday. I trust in God and God alone, everyone else is suspect. I am out, be blessed!!!
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That’s strange because I have some of those same issues. I am sure mines are deep rooted into my up bringing. I trust people believe it or not. I trust people do some certain things. For instance, I trust my mother to be there for me…etc, I trust my father to lie to me…etc. Therefore, the trust that I give to people is only the trust that they have demonstrated to me, so then I want be disappointed. Kinda strange though.
See, there is a different behind trust and faith. Don’t get me wrong they do go hand and hand but there is a different too. See I can trust man but I won’t put my faith in man because he will fail you every time.