Beans3bk’s Weblog

A single mom growing in God

What men want? October 16, 2008

Filed under: Love, Motherhood, Relationships, my baby — beans3bk @ 12:31 pm

I know you probably think this woman is an emotional mess but I feel good today, I have a free weekend, nothing planned regarding mommy land. It is sweetest day; this will be weird for me. This is the first type of holiday, or really non-holiday where I am not trying to rake in as many free gift I can from my boos. I am in a committed relationship. So this will be different, ideally we will go to dinner and catch that new movie and believe it or not that is fine with me. I have discovered in this love game that material things don’t mean a thing. Would I like a new tennis bracelet, yes, but more than that I enjoy spending time with a man who genuinely loves and cares for me. It is amazing how God will change your outlook on life. I am no longer greedy. Being in love has taught me to care for others more, compassion was never my strong suit. I really don’t have too much to say today. I am here. The kids did great for the quarter and are out until November I am so glad I don’t have to deal with anymore uniforms for a while. I do need to get them some more clothes, so this weekend I will be making my way to the mall. Really any excuse will do. I think I am going to get my baby something nice too. He is so good to me. I’m not sure what to get because it is not the style of beans to buy men things, but I feel like I should get him something really nice. Now I am not rich but I want it to be nice yet sentimental. Any ideas? Help a sista out. Give me some ideas.